Ever since we started doing regular spankings, I long for the feel of this pain: the warm burn, the sharp stings and the long glow. Unfortunately, I’ve discovered that not all pain is equal. Some implements are just evil.At a fair in Germany, we found this cane and brought it …
Red Lips Ring Gag Everyone who tries something of BDSM will try a mouth gag sometime during play. And no, you don’t need to buy the most luxurious leather one there is available. A simple scarf can suffice. More devious D’s will stuff panties into the sub’s mouth.Apart from these …
Pink Multi-stranded Whip Sometimes there’s too much to choose from. Last July, my husband and I visited a kinky fair in the Netherlands. The stand by Nelliesz was very large and had a comprehensive arrangement of whips and other BDSM gear. We had already chosen the double slapper, but we …
Inspiration In all aspects of life, I rely heavily on inspiration. Things I talk about with friends, stuff I see on TV or something I find online. Within my BDSM journey, this is the same. For lack of real-life inspiration, I turn to what I find online. So when I …
Initiation by Melanie Gill My rating: 4 of 5 stars Hot BDSM, but a bit too rushed Initiation – Melanie Gill Jonah’s hand accidentally brushes Anya’s, and as with the butterfly effect, this sets off a range of actions. Jonah gets invited into the Conclave, an invite-only BDSM-club. He embraces …
Supermarket Surprise Anything can be kinkified. It’s hard to find good BDSM toys and especially affordable ones, so we’re always on the look-out for things we could use. Especially implements like whips and paddles are hard to find. You either have to go to a BDSM-store, but their prices are …
Looks Great, Feels Great Some implements are better bought in real life, rather than online. To me, whips are definitely in this category. Too often I’ve purchased paddles or whips online, and they were either too thin, too sharp, too light or just unpleasant altogether. So when my husband and …
Ancient Design, Hurts Today Purely for reasons of inspiration ? I tend to watch videos on www.spankingtube.com. Many of these videos are simply hand-spankings, but some also contain the use of implements. And since I’m a curious person by nature, I always study the different tools used. One of these …
Paddle with Laces – Red – Bad Kitty Sometimes you pick out a toy, just because it looks cool. That’s the case with this paddle in red and black, made by Bad Kitty. Apart from the fact that it’s an implement used to administer pain, it looks like something truly …
Soul’s Desire by Melanie Gill My rating: 3 of 5 stars It’s Dark and Erotic, but the D/s is unhealthy Soul’s Desire – Melanie Gill Hmm, I’m conflicted about this book. It’s labeled in the genres: dark romance, paranormal romance, and erotic romance and so I figured there was little …
