I Want To Buy a Sexdoll – Now What?

I Want To Buy a Sexdoll – Now What?

First of all: congratulations! This is an exciting journey you’re about to embark upon. It may seem daunting, but it’s filled with joy and fun stuff!
There are several things to keep in mind before hitting that ‘order’ button. You may be excited and can’t wait to hold your new synthetic friend in your arms, but it’s better to take a step back and consider a couple of things first. I know, I know, that’s not fun, but if you think about things just a little longer, it will make the girl you choose all the better. The right preparation is half the work, isn’t it? And trust me, not all these steps are bad or boring, except for maybe the first one.

Step 1: Wait

Before rushing in and ordering the first pretty doll you see, hold it. Take a step back. First, go over all the options you have. Consider the big picture. Where does this doll fit into your life? Do you want her as a companion in your bed, or will she be a companion in your life? This influences the shape and size of the doll you should choose. And one of the most critical questions is, of course: what is your budget? Do you have the means to go all out and buy one of the fanciest and life-like girls out there, or will you have to go for a more budget option? There’s nothing wrong with that latter plan, all dolls nowadays become more and more detailed and well-designed. But it’s important to know your limits and stay within them.

Step 2: Choose Specifics

Now that you have decided the big picture, you can go a step further. Go online and do some more research. Look at the different types of dolls and think about what is important to you. Do you want a torso-only doll or would you like a full-size one? And if so, what size do you prefer? And if you’d like a life-size model, do you have the means to handle such a doll? Can you stash her somewhere? Also, consider the doll’s weight. Are you able to handle that?
Then they’re the technicalities. What type of skin do you want your girl to have? Will you go TPE or silicone. Each has its own pros and cons. You can also choose what material you want for her boobs. And consider which orifices you will want to use. Not all dolls are suitable for oral sex, for instance.
See, it’s not all bad. Surely these are also fun things to consider. The next step definitely is.

Step 3: Fall in Love

It’s essential to have an emotional connection with your doll. After all, you’re going to share very intimate acts together, so there’s got to be something there.
Once you have chosen a model, browse through the different heads available. See which one speaks to you most.
Again, write down your preferences, sleep on it and see if you still like that choice best the next day.
Now is also the time to consider the details of your new girl. What type of hairstyle do you want? What colour hair, eyes, and lips do you prefer? How big do you want her boobs to be?
In life, you don’t often get to choose what your perfect girl looks like, so enjoy this process.

Step 4: Wait for Delivery and Dream

After pressing the ‘order’ button, your new companion is on her way, and you can start preparing for her. Get the spot ready where you want to keep her. Investigate how to clean her best. This is often different for every type of skin, so make sure you know what to use best. Don’t buy clothes for her yet. It’s best to wait after she has arrived, so you know her exact measurements. You can look at websites to see what styles you would prefer her to have. And now is the perfect time to think of a name and perhaps a backstory.

Step 5: Open the Door and Let Your Dream Begin

One day this will all come together. The large box will be delivered. Your new girlfriend will be as perfect as you had imagined her to be. She is all there for your pleasure. She will never complain or look at you the wrong way. She will have the background you had always wanted your perfect girl to have. She has literally been made to your desires. All you have to do is use her in any way you want. You can spoil her just as much as you like.
I wish you a lot of fun on your first night together!

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  1. Well that was interesting! My local sex shop has these dolls that cost thousands. I spoke to the manager there one day and discovered that she has sold several of them. I figured they were really just there as decorations, but I was wrong.

    1. Liz

      The past few years these dolls have improved in quality tremendously ?
      And now the prices are going down too. We just need to get rid of the stigmas and taboo ?

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